Make this summer break safe, meaningful

THE EDITOR, Madam:

As we come to the end of another exciting yet challenging academic year, I appeal to parents and guardians to make this summer break safe, meaningful, exciting, intentional, and reflective. The journey for many students during the year unravelled bittersweet moments. Some tasted success, while others experienced setbacks. Some formed invaluable friendships, while others bade farewell to toxic relationships.

We had some who unearthed new talents while others grew overwhelmed and gave up on their abilities. Finally, some grappled with deep psychological and emotional challenges due to family issues, such as the loss of a loved one, a broken relationship, abuse, neglect, parents being incarcerated, or migration, among other reasons. Reflecting, therefore, and taking into consideration the challenges and triumphs our children encountered throughout the academic year, we must protect their minds, body, soul, and spirit during the summer. Let us embark on a journey that will empower our children to make the most of their summer.

First, let us protect our children from sexual predators. They can be very clever in their pursuit of our children; likewise, we must be wise and stay ahead of them at all times. So what should we do?

Talk to our children about how valuable their bodies are and that no one should touch them or ask them to touch their private parts. Parents, we know well that their sinister intentions may not always manifest through physical contact alone.

Encourage your child not to keep any secrets from you, and even if they feel afraid due to threats, remind your child that you are their protector, the law will protect them, and you will do all in your power to keep them safe.

If someone will be staying at your home, invite them before their actual visit and simply observe them around your child. Additionally, once you are at home, ask that all doors remain open. During the nights if they have to share a room, ensure that the door is never closed and a little night light is placed inside.

If your child is permitted to leave the house ensure that you get basic information such as the name of the person, place, licence plate number, and the name of the parents of the person your child will be leaving with.

Second, let us get our children involved in offline activities. In the age of digital dominance, it’s crucial to counterbalance screen time with enriching offline activities. Do you remember the days when churches would host Vacation Bible School (VBS) or libraries would host their annual summer programmes? Allow the children to be exposed to new skills or develop old ones.

Third, spend time with your child. It’s vital to prioritise quality time with our children. Did you know that by participating in their favourite games, including outdoor activities, and sharing wisdom through storytelling, you can forge unbreakable bonds with your children? So get up and get busy! Teach them to cook their favourite or your favourite meal. Pray together! Laugh together! Live together!

NICOLE PALMER-HUNTER