Letter of the Day | Beyond books: A back-to-school checklist for parents and guardians

THE EDITOR, Madam:

The new academic year is fast approaching. For some children, this means saying goodbye to a summer of fun and fulfilment. For others, it means leaving behind a holiday marked by violence, abuse, or poverty. Regardless of their summer experiences, when the school gates open this September, our children will return – some with joy and excitement, others seeking safety, stability, and hope.

School is not just a place of learning. For many children, it is a safe haven: a space to find friends, mentors, and a daily meal. For others, it is an environment of opportunity and discovery. As such, parents, guardians, relatives, mentors, pastors, and responsible members of society must take a moment to prepare our children – not just with books and uniforms, but with guidance, encouragement, and care.

They are tomorrow’s leaders, policymakers, and builders of society. While the present is ours, the future is theirs. To support them, let us tick through this essential back-to-school checklist:

1. Affirm their value – Remind children that they matter. Their abilities and talents are vital to solving problems and spreading peace and joy.

2. Encourage peaceful interactions – Conflicts are inevitable, but violence and harsh words are not the answer. Teach them conflict resolution, and emphasise that actions have consequences.

3. Begin with the end in mind – Success is not a myth. Encourage children to see themselves as winners academically, socially, and spiritually, regardless of their background or past experiences.

4. Show love and affection – Just as water sustains plants, petrol keeps a vehicle moving, and data or Wi-Fi keeps us connected, love nurtures children. A hug or a kind word can inspire them to dream and achieve.

5. Promote self-care – School can be overwhelming. Encourage healthy habits, such as rest, exercise, nutrition, and hobbies that bring joy.

6. Provide a listening ear – Children face pressures, too: friendships, exams, self-esteem struggles, even faith and identity questions. Remind them that it’s okay to seek support.

7. Guide their use of technology – Devices can uplift or distract. Teach children to set boundaries and use technology for growth, not harm.

8. Keep eyes on the prize – Distractions will come, but children must remember their purpose and goals, or simply their ‘why’.

9. Support the rules of the school – Let them know that you respect the rules laid out by the school, and that you will ensure they do the same.

10. Nurture spiritual growth – Encourage time in prayer, worship, and scripture. This builds wisdom, character, and lasting faith.

As we prepare for September morning, let us ensure our children return to school not only with sharpened pencils, pens, and clean uniforms, but also with strengthened hearts, hopeful minds, and renewed spirits — ready to learn, ready to love, and ready to leap.

NICOLE PALMER-HUNTER