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My husband wants a threesome!

Published:Sunday | June 2, 2013 | 12:00 AM

Doctor,
I have found myself in a terrible situation. I am a married woman with
three children. All my friends say that I am still very attractive, and I
hope they are right!


My sex life with my husband has always been good. But unfortunately,
over the last few months, I have become involved with a man who owns a
building company and has been coming to our house regularly to do some
long-term work.


He is handsome, sophisticated and charming. He knows my husband
through a voluntary organisation.


About eight weeks ago, he started complimenting me. The next thing I
knew, he was putting his arms round me and kissing my cheek.
I am ashamed to say that, within a week or two, we had reached a
situation where every time he arrived or was leaving, we exchanged very
passionate embraces with lots of kissing, and even breast-squeezing. I
told my husband, but to my astonishment, he did not seem to mind! He
actually got quite 'turned on' by hearing about what had been taking
place.


Things have progressed over the last few weeks, and although I try
and tell this man no, he persists. While we have been cuddling, he has
put his hand up my skirt, and even on one occasion, inside of me. I feel
very bad about this.


Everything sort of came to a head two days ago. My husband was
working out in the back yard and the other man pulled up at the gate in
his van. I brought out a cool drink to him and unwisely got in and sat
on the front seat next to him.
Of course, he immediately started covering my face with kisses, and
feeling my bosom. I tried to say stop, but I couldn't. Then to my
horror, the passenger door opened, and my husband got in. At first, I
thought he would kill both of us.


But, in fact, he just laughed and told the man hello and then he
started kissing and petting me. I was stunned.


For the next five minutes, I just sat there, while the two men kissed
me and hugged me, and made free with my body. Things got so intense
that eventually I had an orgasm.


That seemed to kind of sober me up. So I pushed past my husband, got
out of the van, and ran off down the street to a friend's house. Since
then, I have stayed at my friend's place, and have not seen either men.
Please help me.


What has happened here is absolute madness, especially as you have three children to look after. I guess the two men cooked up the 'three-in-a-van' idea.

If you go any further, all kinds of psychological troubles may result. Please refuse to meet this man ever again. Insist that your husband comes with you to see a marriage guidance counsellor. I wish you well.