Help, I'm restless!
Published:Sunday | June 5, 2011 | 12:00 AM
... In search of career stability
QUESTION: I find your Gleaner Careers articles very informative and interesting. Now, I have a situation that has been facing me for the past couple of years; that of job dissatisfaction.
Over a period of 15 years, I have held nine positions in the private and public sectors, and the longest I have worked in any of these was four years.
I have found that as the years go by it takes a much shorter time for me to begin to get restless and want to move on to something else. Oftentimes, the job functions quickly become routine and boring.
In addition, the salary leaves much to be desired. I am unable to finance a mortgage, rent or pay for a car, and my savings are stagnant because my disposable income is so small.
However, I have set up education plans for my children and a personal pension scheme because I consider these to be priority.
I have a master's degree and, despite having moved around quite a bit, have acquired several useful skills; I just cannot stay in one place for too long.
Even after just acquiring a new job, I cannot help but look around for new positions being advertised. I cannot see the real benefits of working like this and I am beginning to feel more and more detached from what I do.
In spite of this, I am very professional and apply integrity on the job at all times.
A few years ago a doctor had suggested that I could be suffering from chronic fatigue. Do you think that this could be the reason for my behaviour? I really, really am exhausted but, of course, cannot afford to 'stop and rest'.
I have started working on a number of plans to become self-employed, but just do not have the necessary capital. In the interim, I wish I had a part-time job or two that could keep me going, and have been looking for these without success.
What do you suggest?
RESPONSE: I'm happy you find the articles interesting. Let me commend you for the responsible decisions you've made regarding your family. Also, it's admirable that despite your job dissatisfaction, you practise integrity and professionalism in doing a good job.
I would suggest you visit a medical professional who will accurately diagnose whether you're suffering from a clinical condition or you just need some rest.
I think you cannot afford not to stop and rest. Please, take some time to clarify what your deeper life purpose, goals, and objectives are.
This will provide some direction and meaning for your life and be the compass for making decisions about what to do.
Also, work to increase your tolerance for boredom and routine. People who are constantly seeking new thrills, excitement, novelty and stimulation rarely progress in any meaningful endeavour. As you've discovered, there is no perfect job; even the best of jobs have unpleasant, boring aspects.
Finally, it is perhaps unwise to embark on self-employment or seek additional jobs right now. Focus on making the best of where you are instead.
Glenford Smith is a motivational speaker and success strategist.