Let's Talk Life
Dear Counsellor,
I have a weight problem and I am unable to lose the fat. I have tried several weight-loss programmes without much success.
Dear Yvette,
Weight management can be challenging and it requires perseverance and tolerance. People eat more than they need and do not exercise. Overeating can be damaging to the body and is not good. Sometimes people eat because they are unhappy or angry and so gain weight. Emotional eating is a problem and should be considered when you want to lose weight. Comfort food is always available and should be taken with caution. You need to take small portions of food only as we do not want you to gain weight. Look at your activity patterns and check to see that you are getting enough exercise. Walking is a form of exercise and you can walk for half an hour each day. You can exercise without equipment and lose weight in the process.
Cut down on sugar and the salt in your cooking as well as cooking oil. Roast, stew, and bake your meat. Decrease your starchy foods and eat plenty fresh vegetables. Eat fruits wisely and monitor your weight.
Monitor your emotional eating and be in touch with your emotions. Some people are not good at managing their emotions. I am sure that you have heard about emotional intelligence. Keep a diary of your emotions and see how your eating coincides with your emotions.
I have problems sleeping
Dear Counsellor,
I have a sleep problem. I have difficulty falling asleep and I awake early. I don't feel rested in the morning and tend to be sleepy in the day. I survived a motor-vehicle crash and since then, I have the sleep problem.
Dear Marjorie,
Motor-vehicle accidents are very traumatic. Some people die while others get broken bones or head injuries. Some people get spinal problems. Many people get post-traumatic stress disorder and so they have sleep problems, among many other symptoms. You need to see a psychiatrist to be evaluated for depression and anxiety. Most times, accident victims bear their psychological pain alone. Some may talk with their friends, families, or pastors about the event. The symptoms are treated with sleep aids, but the trauma persists. People need sleep and help with their tragedies. We need help to deal with life's problems.
You need to adjust to the fact that you had a near-death experience and that life is precious. Learn to live life one day at a time and be thankful that you have been spared.
Email questions and feedback for Dr Yvonnie Bailey-Davidson to yvonniebd@hotmail.com or call 978-8602.

