Doctor, I am a guy who has got himself into a sexual situation that is a little difficult. I am 31 and for some years now I have made quite a successful living in the hotel industry along the north coast. Basically, I work in public relations and hospitality, welcoming guests, arranging trips, facilitating meetings, and so on. But I will not conceal from you, doc, that I do make a good additional income through (shall we say) being nice to lady tourists.